Do you lie awake in bed wondering if you’ll ever trust your husband again?
I can help you navigate the road to recovering from your husband’s affair.
Carol Erb, Ph.D
Denying the pain of your husband’s affair will delay your healing and hope for the future.
It’s absolutely normal to feel hurt, resentful, confused, and overwhelmed,
but these feelings don’t have to be permanent.
You don’t have to feel naive or stupid for wanting to repair a marriage with someone who broke your trust.
You can heal from the loss, unfairness, and humiliation of your husband’s actions.
But support and guidance along the way will make your recovery journey far more effective and efficient. I can help you look forward to the future with hope, peace, and joy.
You want to:
- Understand why your husband did this
- End the emotional rollercoaster ride
- Know why he didn’t talk to you if he was unhappy
- Stop thinking about him with his lover
- Be able to breathe again
- Determine if you should stay or separate
- Believe God has a plan for you
When we work together you will:
- Have a plan that’s focused on your healing
- Become more confident and secure
- Work through questions and doubts about your faith
- Realize that joy and peace can become a part of life again
- Accept that you are significant and valuable
- Learn techniques and tools to help you move effectively through your healing journey
- Feel validated and begin to strengthen trust in yourself, others, and God
Marriage coaching is a process that requires time and effort. This is why I work with women in-person or via phone or video call during weekly individual sessions. Our work typically spans at least 12 weeks, though I do also offer intensives. There are also opportunities for your husband to join your coaching sessions, if you and he choose to do so. I consider my clients to be lifetime clients, so that if any time you hit a bump in the road, you can call and schedule a coaching session.
Schedule a free introductory call to learn more about how coaching can help you move forward with your life.
Kind Words for Carol
I was feeling trapped in my marriage. I needed to talk to someone who understood the seriousness of my situation, and could show me God’s heart on the subject of infidelity… You were my advocate and gave me the support I needed so that I could begin a new chapter in my life.
My husband had been lying to me for years. I lost it. During my first meeting with you I felt peace even knowing it would be a hard journey. Everything you asked me or discussed was about something I had mentioned in my prayers.
REBUILD YOUR HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
Get The Step-By-Step Workbook
Even if Your Husband Betrayed You, God Never Will. Infidelity carves a deep wound in a woman’s heart. Under the shame and embarrassment, there are questions such as:
• How could he do this to our family?
• Why did he break the vows we made before God?
• How can I forgive him when he shattered my heart?
In this gentle and affirming workbook, Dr. Carol Erb helps women heal from the wounds of infidelity with a blend of biblical comfort, her personal experiences, and wisdom gleaned from years of professional counseling experience. Never judgmental and always encouraging, this workbook will guide you through a process of healing that will give you hope and restore your strength.
Carol is happy to speak to your group or comment on the speaking points below:
- What Your Spouse’s Affair Really Means
- Steps to Save Your Marriage
- Communicate So You Feel Understood
- Learn How to Resolve Conflict
- Understand Your God-given Temperament
- Meet Your Spouse’s Deepest Needs
- Bring Romance Back into the Marriage
- Motivate Your Spouse to Change
- The Difference Between Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation
- Initiate a Therapeutic Separation
- Navigate the Challenges of a Divorce
- Characteristics of a Godly Mate
- How to Choose a Christian Counselor or Marriage Coach
- Start a Christian Counseling Practice
- Steps for Publishing a Book
- The Story and Message behind Enveloped
- How to Hear from God
Enveloped tells the story of how Carol survived the trauma of sexual betrayal and loss. She describes her journey in detail, holding nothing back from the raw emotions she felt during those tumultuous years. But it was during these years of heartache, she found herself in the most intimate relationship of her life. She found joy and fulfillment beyond what she could have ever thought or imagined. It’s about the miracles that happen when you trust in God, even when it feels like the rest of the world is against you. With each turn of the page you’ll discover the excitement of self-discovery, the beauty of trust, and the transformative power of faith.